😀 Maybe the Term Toxic is being overly used, because there’s a lot of poor behavior going around ! We are currently living in low vibe culture. People think there poor behavior should be normalized as something casual. It has been normalized in the term of it being the overly used word TOXIC 🤪
Let’s visit our “ Dating Coaches of IG “ One man in particular posted a video saying it’s okay for men to be assholes to women, because they have to be. His reason behind it was that “ women are narcissistic & manipulative” his own words mind you ! Refer to the post photos to see his own written words. I went ahead gave him a correction to you don’t have to be toxic and be an asshole when you can set boundaries & vet peoples character. He’s réponses to me was very negative child like behavior by cursing me out as well as saying I was stupid. After all that I could only think to my self wow ! You really are toxic. Your cursing me out for saying the truth, being an asshole is not good its negative and abusive to do so in any manner of relations especially in dating. He doesn’t like when some women are asshole to him, why should that be the set front of how he treats women ? The idea of telling a women no doesn’t have to be done as an asshole, but as a boundaries if necessary. With that no being given the person may react as they wish in a respectful manner. So if she then removes access from her self from that person base off the no then that’s what her choice is, but being an asshole give me “abuse women because I’m been hurt in the pass and thats my advice”. The idea that he can’t see that his hurt is now influencing more pain is poor behavior as an influencer/dating coach. He’s not the only one leading the masses to poor behavior by justifying his actions there any many like him as even women are running the show as well. There was a women dating coach I came across, she posted a IG reels of her saying sitting in the wife slippers & robe. She’s encouraging breaking up homes and being a home wrecker. Why did she feel so comfortable to post that she’s dealing with a married man and wearing his wife belonging in there home ? Now that’s wrong, but in the comments people are cheering her on ! As well as supporting her tasteless actions. Now y’all are toxic and aren’t going to tell me it’s over used. People don’t wanna hear their wrong, but wanna keep being bad & have an excuse for it as we as have supporters.
Now on that note of women acting tasteless, this video of a young black women modeling her dress at a party with people around her went viral ! In the video she said and I Quote “ he’s ready to risk it all “ she said that because the man behind her modeling made a 😮💨 face along side another male and to mention in the video a couple walked passed her with paying her no attention. Now the comments cheered on her “ toxic behavior “ a woman even said I’m married I would risk it all. They claimed she had confidences in the comments also 30,000 people like one comment saying they wouldn’t blame him. I‘m disgusted with the idea if the man who made the face could be in a relationship. People would support the actions of him risking it . He was next to another male talking while holding a drink. It’s unsure if he is even in a romantic relationship yet she chose to say what she said. Secondly the couple behind her walked passed her and didn’t look at her. So it makes me feel as if the couple behind her walking are together aren’t paying her any mind. Shows a set of boundaries with them As for the man who was standing beside his another male friend is the one paying her attention. Why does she feel it was appropriate to say that. In the video it shows 2 perspective. It’s unclear the man may have a gf or any type of romantic obligation for him to respect vs the couple not paying attention to her. Now it’s disgusted me to see every one cheering her on, because why would you want a man to risk his gf, wife, fiancé, significant other or responsibilities for a women he just saw. Lust is being appropriated at a all time high. She’s not worth risking the obligations and commitment this man may have in her imagination. Why did every one cheer her on, as if it was appropriate. It wasn’t ! Now that’s toxic, she’s proud and their calling her confident because she’s acting as if a lustful energy is worth the value of commitment and responsibilities. That really grinds my gears, that’s not confidence that’s disgusting arrogance to believe your more important base off a lustful attraction. With the people in the comments saying agreeing with risking the obligations they have goes to show why the word toxic is being used often. That’s toxic to agrees to risk your family, your significant others emotional, physical and mental health for this women or any lustful attraction. She’s not worth it no one is ! You have a commitment in a marriage or a romantic relationship no body should be able to interfere with the values of taking care of your family or lover.
In the current culture of toxic low vibe behavior takes me to my next example to why the term is “ overly used “ the spin off of Bad Girls Club, “Baddies South“ on Zeus. Starring former bad girls as well as newly casted socialites join forces on a new show. The former bad girl sua known as Persuasion got into a altercation with socialite Chriseanrock former known as Blue faces Gf and Artist. The altercation was set off by Sua referring to Chriseanrock as being messy. Sua addressed her as dirty and was picking on her Form the first eps. With all of that Chriseanrock fought her hitting her 1st. During the fight, Sua exploses she slept with Blueface 2 weeks prior to casting the show and stated the vulgar sexually acts their were involved into. Later in a different interview with Christina Rome former bad girl and baddies south cast member stated Sua told her how she had blue faces number and Chriseanrock didn’t know she did. Christina Rome said how she felt like it was evil of her to behave the way she did. Now evil is a strong word, it goes along with the idea that something is unpure, negative or toxic. Now it’s became super popular for women to “ take your man “ or “ sleep with your baby daddy “ . That’s toxic and wrong absolutely wrong. You see this behavior on social media and even music. It’s equally as popular among men. Staying lyrics “ I do it better then your man “ or “ I can get you wetter then your man” it’s in our music it’s affecting our day to day lives it’s being captured in videos, photos and exposed on social media. So yeah the world is overly saturated with tasteles, negative actions with that being the culture that’s being accosted and supported it’s toxic. If we want to stop over using the word let’s stop using, doing, behaving in the action of the word. Let’s not get upset that we’re being called out and asked to take accountability for our actions. For More Haitian Barbie 👙
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